Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Chula Chula/rummble rumble/dogs,cows&ghatsghoats

I am at a internet place and dont have much time cause i have to go meet a friend of mine. sorry i havent posted anything in a while. the rains have come everyday causing our stolen internet source to not come through (my theory). Last week i went to Sikkim and saw the Himalayas from an amzing guest house. bought tea from a tea estate and was taught how to properly make it (havent tried out the recipie yet...). After we went to the holy city of Varanassi to see the Solar Ecplise on the Ganga (ganges) river - amazing.
Sadly no orphange work. I got sick during my time in Sikkim but i think it was just travelers sickness as once Caulder and i got back to Delhi its gotten better. I have joined with my friends Annelie and Katherine to their volunteer work - womens empowerment. My first day was yesterday - Monday - with a group of girls around 16-20 years old. In the first few minutes we decided Katherine and I wanted to get our nose periced so we left and went to one of the girls house and learned to dance, drank soda. than went to the market bought the jewlery and sat on the side of the road to have a man jab a needle in our nose! dont worry, we made a big dramatic scene about the needle. we made him torch and clean both in front of us before hand.
it hurt really bad.
well so thats the last week and few days in a nut shell. with photos i will say more but that wont happen till next monday when i return to france.
love love love

annie

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

week one re-cap


I just got back last night. Right now I am using a computer at the office of the organization that runs the orphanage that I will be working at next week. I haven’t started because the one where I am supposed to be at is being re-painted or something so the children are not there. They have asked me to write about my experience as an au pair because they are interested in sending some of the girls abroad to do the same.
But anyway. What have I been doing? A group of us (Calder, guy from Chicago, Iona and Sandra, cousins from France, Lizzie, from Manchester, Annelie from Germany and Kathleen from California) took the train Friday to Amritsar (north India). It was about a nine hour train ride. We met a guy who was Indian but had lived in Germany for some time. Iona wanted to go to a town close to Dharmashala (higher north India) where the Dali Lama lives and is home to Tibetan refugees. The guy, Sene (I don’t know how to spell his name or if I am even pronouncing it correctly) explained to us that it would be easily possible to get a taxi to drive us to Dharmashala from Amritsar. We took down his phone number. He said he could help us the next day with the tickets and details. He helped us find a rickshaw from the train station and we got to our hotel – The Lucky Guest House – WITH AC! That was only a 5 minute walking distance from The Golden Temple. We got dinner, Butter nan and curry and went back to our rooms to go to bed. We woke up early the next morning and got breakfast at the same place as dinner, moi; i had a Banana Lassi, yogurt, tea and something else but i cant remember. We called Sene and he came over on his motorbike and said he could take two people on it to the train station to cancel our return tickets. So of course I didn’t want to pass up the chance to ride a motorbike in India! Calder came to deal with the tickets. Since he had to wait in line for a while Sene asked me if I wanted to go with him on his bike to ride around the city and get some food and I had to get more money. I made a video of riding the bike. It was the funnest and best thing in the world. We rode around than came back to check on Calder than rode around and got some food and then came back to Calder.
However it turned out Sene wasn’t that helpful and there were a lot of red flags about him. The rest of the group didn’t understand why he was helping us so much but at the same time he wasn’t really helping us. The people who worked at our hotel said it happens all the time that foreigners come here and make friends with someone then get their stuff stolen and we realized that it wasn’t worth hanging out with someone who you don’t know if you can trust or not. It started an argument so we realized that he isnt worth it if it’s going to break up the group. We told him and he understood right away. I was sad and so was Calder because we both liked him but I think Calder and I really WANTED to trust him and that sort of blinded us. But I had the best time riding his bike! And so did Calder. But yes so that night we went to the India/Pakistan border as each side tries to show off in front of the other. This was the best thing ever. I also made a video of this but I wont be able to put any photos or videos up till I come back….
Whenever we go to a touristic place in India we end up being bombarded by Indian tourists who want to shake our hand, take a picture (“snappy snappy?”) or say hello. If we stand in one place we are surrounded by them just watching us as if we are going to do some magic trick. I have never felt more famous before in my life. At the Golden Temple we were in over 100 photos and shook many hands of children. At the Pakistan boarder it was just the same. Personally I like it depending on my mood. Sometimes we will be in a hurry and they really want a photo with us but don’t understand what we are saying. The people who are asking are typically from somewhere in India where they do not get any tourists and the only white people they have seen are on TV or in movies. A lady at the train station coming back to Delhi gave me a little charm for a necklace and wanted me and Calder to shake her babies hand. Everyone is very nice but of course we have to be careful. After the border we went back to the Golden Temple to see it lit up at night. This however was scary as there was a lot of men and for some reason at this sacred holy place they were being very disgusting and bumping into us and when I would get mad they would just laugh. So only 5 minutes after we arrived we left.

A lot of what I am writing would be so much better with photos so I will have to post another blog later that will have those and I will probably have to repeat all of this anyway.
So our group was 7 people but Lizzie and Kathern had to get back for their volunteer job but the other 5 of us took a taxi at 7 am to the little town after Dharmashala. This was the most perfect place right away. We saw monkeys on the drive there. When we arrived it wasn’t so hot that you melt away as we were used to in Delhi and Amristar. There was a good mood there and no one was begging for anything or who just wanted to follow us around. Everyone was truly helpful and Tibetan monks passed by us all the time along the roads with that cute smile that they have. We got an amazing meal in a restaurant on the roof of a building. I got my tea, mango Lassi and yogurt and shared a sort of pasta soup that reminded me of the most amazing pizza at first and momos. We didn’t have much time and wanted to visit the temples and a waterfall. We got to one temple and it was very nice. Then we couldn’t find the other so we decided to go to the waterfall. It was a path that had been maintained. It started to rain hard on the way there but it ended as soon as it started. We got to the waterfall which wasn’t as big or impressive as we thought. Calder and I climbed down the rocks and Iona and Sandra took the path back (Annelie was sick and took a nap in our hotel). After a way down the rocks there was a random cafĂ© where Calder and I got some AMAZING tea. It started to rain again so we rapped my bag in newspaper and ran back to meet up with Iona and Sandra. Everything was soaked by the time we got back but it still felt good. We did some shopping in the town. Then we got Annelie who felt better and went and got dinner at a place that had a photo of Perice Browswin in it that had a caption saying “Perice Browswins favorite resutarant” or something like that, SO of course it was good! We got some great beer. It started to rain again and from the window we could see that it started to turn into a river going down the road. We finally paid for it all and prepared for the way back. We sat in our hotel and played cards and watched the lightening and thunder from our balcony. We wanted to go out and play in the rain but found that the owner had locked the door….
The next day we had to leave and we were all very sad at this as we loved this town and wanted to stay longer. We took a taxi which was about a five hour drive to the nearest train station and back to the heat and sweat. Our train was supposed to come at 1:30 but ended up coming at 5…. We waited at the train station drinking coke and water and playing BS that got very boring and tedious after a while. Finally we just jumped on a train that was going to Delhi but then we got kicked off which was stupid. We waited at another train station in the middle of nowhere till our train finally arrived around 6. We finally got to Delhi at 12:30 and took a rickshaw. It was really nice to ride it at night when no one was out and the temperature was cooler. We arrived and showered and slept.
It was the most amazing weekend. I feel like I have been here much longer and am so close with the volunteers who I traveled with. We argued and laughed and were scared together in just a matter of days. I can only imagine what will happen for the rest of the 3 weeks which are going to go by too fast. Here you just use all of your senses all the time. You have to be constantly aware of your surroundings and yourself. My brain is constantly working. All of my senses are being used as there are many different sents wherever I go and so many different things to see. I am exhausted and awake at the same time. Sleep is getting better but it’s so hot at night that it was hard to sleep for a few hours straight.
My skin is amazing here due to the amount of sweat that is naturally moisturizing it. My face looks more lively and healthy. However other girls are getting spots… maybe this will happen but I think because before this I was using carrot oil on my face everyday it was used to the oil. But the only bad thing is the heat rash that is growing along my arms….
I have grown to love my body even more now as most people get sick or don’t like the food. I feel like I can eat anything and everything because I just burn it off in the heat.
So I am sad that I cannot put photos here….
Also I have a question for you, I want to put my photos on a CD but I don’t have a cord to put it into a computer. If I put my memory card into someone else’s camera and use their camera and cord to upload it will this work? I may than be able to being the CD to a computer and upload some photos so you can get an idea of all the beautiful things I am see and experiencing.

ok i wrote a mini novel. more to come soon of course!

Annie

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Another volunteer here has a computer and jacked into someones internet which is great for us! Because there is so much to say you all are free to ask me questions in case i forget to mention something or you want to me find anything out while I am here.
I decided to do the orientation week so yesterday and today we lecture a bit about Indian culture and stuff than go around India looking at things. The lecture part is difficult as we are in a very warm room with a fan and listen to the host father/man in charge talk about India.... it is difficult because we are constantly tired and put in a situation like that it is hard to stay awake. my eyes closed without me noticing yesterday and he stopped to tell me to wake up.. i felt bad. but today my friend lizzie was falling asleep so i tried to get him to only pay attention to me so that way i wouldnt fall asleep and he wouldnt notice her...
but this morning we went to Lotus Temple (you can google image it) which is very famous but very mellow. we had to take our shoes off to go in which meant we had to walk on the hottest ground in the world. i think if i had kept my feet in one place for less than 5 minutes i would have gotten a first or second degree burn. so we all skipped fast to the entrance and then Lizzie and i shared a pair of socks back which helped. after that Rajeed (i dont know how to spell his name) brough us to a place of worship for Karishna whcih was amazing as there were tons of people in there praying but its with a lot of music and these BIG shrins for karshina. after we went to the gift mesuem and i bought a prestent for my baby newfew preston, some insensce and jasmine oil perfume which smells great!
we wanted to do some more market searching after the lecture but there was no time.
shit the comptuer is out of battery

Monday, July 6, 2009

hot heat

its monday afternoon. it feels likei have been here much longer and i can only imagine what its going to feel like after a month. i have freinds here that are french so its great because we can speek french together and nobody understands!
This girl Lizzie made a good point that you are using so many senses and its so hot that by the end of the day you are so exahusted. except its hard to sleep because of the heat. i dont feel like i am sleeping heavy eaither because the slitest noise or anything wakes me up. maybe my brain things i am in danger. Lizzie and I spent the whole day wandering around Delhi. We had drank like 3 liters of water by the afternoon and didnt have to pee. it all comes out of our sweat. there is a girl that hadnt poo'd for a whole week but that is because the food isnt... well its rice and curry - no meat and very little bread.
Lizzie and i evtualy had to go into any restuarnt that had air conditioning and i ordered 2 cokes cause we werent getting enough sugar.
there is a mouse in our room and a lizard. before i left to come here the water backed up in both bathrooms of mostly toilet water. the arangments are very nice though and its like a girls dormatory cause there are now about 12 girls sharing 3 rooms and two bathrooms but we get by fine so far.
i need to by a journal to remember all this stuff.
anyway no photos because i didnt bring a cord but i dont have a cord anyway cause i just put the memory stick in my computer.
there is so much to say but its hard cause it would be better said in person.
i am glad its only one month though. some of these girls are doing it for like 3 months! but i think i am actually getting used to the heat...
everyone stares at us and we have been followed many times.. some girls are even asked to be in photos of complete strangers. the white skin is rare here. they said i would get a lot because i am blonde which is more rare.
i wiped my face yesterday cause of the sweat and the tissue was all dirty.
ok blech
its hot
this internet place is like an aquarium shop

Saturday, July 4, 2009

india

i am here! at the slowest internet. so slow that if i make a typing mistake it will cost money to corect it. but i found it after going down all the wrong street. i met a girl from england and she is on the computer too. we sign languaged our way here imitating typing and drawing a box in the air.
its hot. like contant moisture onmy skin that sort of burn cause its salty after a while.
the flight was great as the plane was empty and i met a french girl who is going to Bombay to study for a year! well we took a full row and tried to sleep but i failed at that somewhat. but i got her information incase i need to run away somewhere she is living in an apartment there so that could be cool but we will see.
right now i am staying at a place till monday when they drive us to the orphanage where i will be sleeping. i dont know what it looks likeor what its like. everything from here on is all suprises. i dont know when i will have internet access next. it may be only once a week if at all. i dont know if i will actually buy a si card for my phone but if i do its an eaiser way for mom and dad to reach me. i must go now as time is up.

annie

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

prepare


my bags have been tightly packed like a tetris game!
I leave paris at 7pm friday. i have been asked how i feel and honestly i dont know how to answer it. i really honestly dont know what to expect.
my last week has been lovely as the weather here is beautiful but at the same time so hot. My skin by the afternoon is so sticky. Nicole and I spent a lot of time together as her boyfriend was out of town so I spent the night at her place every night. We sat in front of her kitchen window and talked than ended most nights by passing out in front of a movie. We layed in the sun most afternoons and visited the Saint Germain pool which was a let down as it was super crowdy with screaming children and the only pool was inside which we took one look at and decided to just shower and continue our sun bathing outside.
Nathalie is out of town just for tongiht so i had the boys to myself. we made pizza for dinner and nataniel and i finished the book we were reading - Witches. I didnt realize it at first but this is also the movie i watched as a little girl with the witches who turn children into things. I vaguly remembered scenes from it. I tried to find it for nataniel to watch but with no luck.

so in India i will have limited internet access as I am not bringing my computer. I decided to bring my digital camera but will be keeping a close close eye on it.
i will try to call some of you before i leave friday.
much love

annie